Handling Pushy Messages and Spam in Chat
Short answer: Ignore, block, report. Never click links or move the conversation to another app with someone you just met.
Spam bots and pushy users exist everywhere, including live chat.
Typical patterns
Links to other sites, requests for money, urgent stories and offers that sound too good to be true.
Do not engage
Replies tell scammers you are active. Block and move on.
Never leave the platform
Moving to private messengers removes the platform's protection.
Report
Use the flag button so moderators can act.
Trust your gut
If it feels off, it probably is. Leave.
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Start chatting liveFurther reading: FTC: romance scams, EFF Surveillance Self-Defense. See also our safety guide and FAQ.